i ' cheated' on my boyfriend and barely felt any guilt. why should i? the moment i decided to do it was the moment i decided to bare the consequences. i think cheating of this sort is ok as long as the other person never finds out. what you chose to do is entirely up to you and if you really want to sleep with someone else and you actually do it, then don't feel guilty because you've done what you wanted. guilt is an oppressive emotion. nobody wants to feel guilty, it is a manipulative emotion used as a tool by societies and people. there's obviously limits to everything. if i were in love i wouldn't have 'cheated', wouldn't have felt the need to. but some of us are very needy and want lots of attention.
posted by Cat at 1:33 PM
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i feel pretty much EXACTLY the same. i just cant articulate my emotions like you have. thank you. b.
guilt isn't the same as remorse or shame.
i don't allow myself to feel guilty about the things that i've done, now or in the past. and i am trying so hard to be moral and good but my path is dictated by wants and needs and a blatant disregard for the consequences. i tell myself i'll deal with it when the time comes and i have and i will again.
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