things to do before i die

once i wrote out a list and posted it for an online creative writing class.
as follows
1) die with a smile on my face
2) eat chocolate every day before I die
3) give my journals to my sister
4) find a boy who will take care of me. get rid of current boy who wouldn't.
5) let everything go.

a woman responded to number 4) saying she didn't understand why I would be with somone who doesn't care about me. (is it really that simple)?

what is your list?